Make a wholehearted commitment to your personal recovery. Simultaneously, strive to bring up children who truly appreciate the significance of being healed. Our obligations as parents extend beyond a single lifetime; they are multigenerational. There is no room for carelessness in child-rearing because the cost is ultimately borne by someone else's offspring. In fact, there are people paying that price right now. While it is true that trauma is transgenerational, remember that healing is transgenerational as well.