Did you notice?
If you are the first in your family
Involved in finance, stocks, funds,
People in bonds, futures, and cryptocurrency,
In the eyes of family, you are basically equal to:
Neglecting duties + Wanting to take the wrong path + Trouble will come sooner or later.
They only have one path in their minds:
Work.
8 to 6,
Receiving a salary every month,
A lifetime without making mistakes,
I would rather die at my workstation.
Because in the worldview of the previous generation:
Not working = not safe;
Researching money = not serious;
Leaving the workplace = life is over.
But they refuse to acknowledge a more down-to-earth,
A harsher reality:
Working can only keep you alive,
Capital is what determines whether you have a way out.
What is labor?
It's trading time for money,
Using the body to fight against inflation.
Betting your whole life that you will not be unemployed.
And what is capital?
It's the day you decide you don't want to work anymore.
Can still survive.
So when you start looking at the market,
Calculate returns, research cycles,
They will instinctively panic:
It's not that they're afraid you'll lose money,
It’s afraid you won't be obedient anymore.
No longer walking the only path they walked,
It's the only way to understand.
They will say:
"Those are all lies."
"Don't mess around."
"Working hard is the right path."
Translation means:
I will only know this set for my whole life,
You'd better not jump out either.
What's more ironic is,
This concept of 'only allowed to work',
Directly ruining the marital relationship.
Once a man loses a stable job,
Instantly labeled:
"Unreliable," "irresponsible," "wanting to take shortcuts."
Once women start studying money, investing, assets,
And will be told:
"Too utilitarian," "too realistic," "not like a woman."
As a result, it becomes
Men are forced to work hard for a lifetime.
Women are forced to stake their sense of security on men.
Both sides are exhausted,
But no one dares to jump out of this rotten logic.
But reality has long changed:
The iron rice bowl is gone,
Housing prices, inflation, and retirement are pressing down.
Will only lead to the path of dying at work.
The future will only become more passive.
To put it bluntly:
Those who don't understand capital,
Eventually, you will have to use your body, emotions, and marriage to settle accounts.
You are not rebellious,
You are just a little more awake than they are:
The real risk,
Has never been about studying new things,
But will only work hard for a lifetime.
What they want is stability,
What you want is the right to choose.
And one that only allows you to work,
You are not allowed to understand the family of capital.
Essentially
It's not that they're afraid you'll fail,
Are afraid you will run farther than they do.
