When others say you are selfish, it's because they haven't taken advantage of you; when others say you have a bad temper, it's because you haven't complied with them; when others say you are stubborn, it's because they can't control you.
When others say your attitude is problematic, it's because you are in the right; when others say your vision is insufficient, it's because they are offering something you won't accept. In everything, when they want you to consider the overall situation, you are not part of that situation; in everything, when they want you to spare no effort, you are that effort. #BTC